And just like that, another year is over. I mean it when I say it's crazy how fast it went by.
As I did last year (more like at the beginning of this year), I want to look back at the good, the ok-ish and the bad of the year, to have a little bit of a recap of my 2025.
In general, I think it was mostly a good year. Was it perfect? Of course not but, I do think there is a lot I'm grateful for. It was a busy year for sure! Especially towards the end of it. Which leads us to one of my highlights this year: I got a promotion at work! My first promotion in all my working years. And, I'm not gonna lie, it was exciting but a tiny bit scary cuz I knew I would have more responsibilities, I was in my comfort zone and, that was fine with me. I know we shouldn't need validation but, I rarely had some in my previous jobs so this whole thing, along with all the good things my boss said about me and my work, made me feel like I am really doing things right and that I deserve to aim for more and better things. Plus I love how my friends and family were super proud and happy for me. I know my dad would be very proud too. ♡
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| I am lucky to say I finally have a great boss and a job that allows me to grow. |
Being busier also meant less time with my friends. And it wasn't just me, I think it was busy for everyone in general. That doesn't mean we didn't share some quality time and celebrated each others' achievements. We actually celebrated one of my most anticipated events this year, two of my closest friends got married and I was thrilled to be part of it! We all were beyond happy for them. It was the perfect wedding, for the cutest couple. When I was younger, I always dreamt of having these kind of freindships in which you just grow, celebrate and share difficult times together. I love to see how I have something like that now. I also had the time to see Taichou twice in a year (which is a lot considering he lives in Canada) and, finally, after a couple of years of not being able to hang out because of life in general, I got to spend some time with my middle school bestie again this year.
And even tho I can't call everyone a close friend, I feel like I've met great people this year. Who knows? Maybe we can become friends in the future.
When it comes to family, my mom, my sister and I started celebrating things a lot more, no matter how big or small they were, we always had an excuse to do something. Wine nights became a weekly tradition this year. It's basically having dinner at my mom's together every Thursday night after work with some music and (a lot) of wine or any alcoholic drink really. It's a nice little something to look forward to after a busy week of work. (I usually have Fridays off so, that's why it feels like the end of my working week).
I had the chance to spend some time with my aunts and uncles this year. Sometimes it wasn't for the best reasons, but I truly think we bonded in a different level. Plus, I hadn't seen some of them in years and, some of my best childhood and teenage years memories are with them. It was really, really nice.
Not everything was happy tho, this year we lost my grandpa. Even tho he was 94, it was very sudden. He was the only grandpa I had and he was the best. I was so lucky to love him and enjoy him a lot, even during my adult years. He was one of the most importan men in my life, along with my dad. I miss him but, I have no regrets, I know he knew how important he was for me.
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| This mas was and will always be my treasure. ♡ |
And well, when it comes to me, I think I became a little more confident, even with small things, I'm also learning to deal with unpleasant situations a lot better instead of just running away from them or making a tantrum about it. I should know that life is not all butterflies and rainbows by now. Adulting is hard but I'm doing my best, haha.
Speaking of adulting, I had to deal with a lot of unexpected money situations at the beginning of the year, that wasn't pretty but, I survived and, I finally ended the year with some (small) savings, which is A LOT for me and, I invested some money too. I want to save that for my future cuz, I don't really think about it much but, I know it's important. And that, makes me feel like a smart, functional adult.
On a "less-adulting" note, I am so proud to say that I started reading this year, and not just manga! Haha. I finished 5 books. I know for some people it isn't much but, it is a big achievement for me. I didn't read because I had to, it was more because I wanted to. I'm still in the process of finding what type of books or stories I like the most and taking recommendations from friends and even some of my students. It's been fun! I plan to continue doing it next year.
I didn't only read books tho, I went back to fanfics. I used to loooooove them so much years ago, and I've been reading some Spuffy ones. So, let me know if you'd like me to share a little more about that in the future.
I would say I also watched many more movies this year (as you might have noticed from my many movie posts), it has become a habit of mine to watch (mostly) horror movies in bed, before I sleep. I really enjoy it.
In general, I think those are the highlights of my 2025, it was mostly a good year. I'm so not ready for 2026, just because I don't like it when time passes this fast, but I'm hoping it'll be a great year.
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I hope your 2025 was a great one and that 2026 will be an even better, magical one. ๐๐ |